There is a growing phenomenon where a young woman who begins dating a more religious partner is asked to "tutup aurat" (cover up). Conversely, a woman who removes her tudung for a liberal partner faces social ostracism. The question arises: Is the tudung a choice of faith or a tool for relationship bargaining?
Modern Malay relationships are currently in a "transitional" phase. While the end goal for many remains marriage ( pelamin ), the path to get there has changed: video awek melayu cun buat seks upd